Ray & Mel's Wedding - Wedding

The wedding was held at the Unitarian Universalist Church in downtown Urbana - also where I went to nursery school, when it was Co-Op. These are the pictures from before, during, and just after the wedding - well, except for the wedding itself, where I was standing up front and flash photography was discouraged. Hopefully I'll have somebody else's pictures to point at for that eventually...


Images
Dressing Up
Luckily, Rachel was there to help me confirm that I knew what I was doing. Or was at least trying.
Dressed Up Skirv
That's me!
At The Hall
Jacob and John consider heading out.
Ray's Dad
Tony really didn't want to be in the shot. Too bad.
Jacob and John
We do actually look good, eh?
Ray the Groom
Ray looked better, though. (As it should be.)
John with Camera
He gets more annoyed at people taking pictures of cameras than I do.
Henry
I still barely knew the guy, but that's okay.
Ken
I'd at least met Ken a few times...
Jacob
This shot was necessary to save Jacob's life against his family's evil whims. Poor Jacob.
Ray's Boutonniere
We all had them pinned on by our wedding organizer-person, but Ray's was the most vital.
Church, with Flowers
All set up and ready to go...
"DO NOT TOUCH"
"This is an organ pipe!" Cute. I want an organ.
Erin Emerges
This was the first I had seen of the bridesmaid dressses.
Erin Wants A Drink
And can you blame her? She had to deal with Mel for days!
Wall O'Buttons
It's a beautiful, beautiful thing...
Ray and John
Groom and Best Man; a nice shot, too.
Photographer Arrives
He was a bit late, but we survived.
Setting Up
For a while from this point, I pretty much just copied the shots the photographer was taking (or had someone else do it, as appropriate). It worked okay, I guess. But there's not much for me to say as a result...
Groom's Side
Ken, Henry, Ray, John, Jacob, Me
Groom's Side, II
I should have sent the tripod with whoever was taking these shots. (Erin? Jeff?)
Groom's Side, III
This time, we added Ray's Dad.
Ray's Family
Dad, Ray, and Mom.
Ray's Family, II
This one worked well.
Blake's Shots
Blake, Ray's nephew, was taking at least as many pictures as me. We'll see if he gets them online too.
Jacob and Charlotte
I'm not sure what to make of the poses, actually.
Jacob and Charlotte, II
...but they look better without the flash.
Ray's Extended Family
With "extended" meaning "with siblings and families". That's not that extended, really.
Ray's Core Family
I wish I remembered his mother's name... Oh well. The others are Tony, Cindy, John, and Ray.
Ray's Core Family, II
A bit much light in this one, though.
"Keep OFF!"
"This will not support you!" Yay!
Heading Outside
If nothing else, this gave me a good shot of the outside of the church.
John and Ray
No coats. Cooler.
Tim and Ray
You know what? I think I actually *was* smiling there. I gotta work on that.
Tim and Ray, II
I really was proud to be there, you know. I should say that more often.
Tim and Ray, III
Two of my absolute best friends getting married, and me being a part of it... *happy sigh*
Jacob and Ray
That's an interesting Ray look. Heh.
Pants
My lost pants! Hooray!
Mike Arrives
Luckily, he just had to be here for Mel's side's pictures, not ours, since he was quite late.
The Girl's Side Prepares
...by grabbing their bouquets
Bouquets
They had handles. Mel was really impressed.
The Girl's Side
As before, the next pile of shots are primarily at the photographer's suggestion. The girls: Erin, Mel, Gen, Jill, Sarah, and Charlotte.
Smiling Mel
Like there was any time she wasn't smiling... I have never seen such a happy bride.
Handling the Train
Erin, as Iron Matron of Honor, was in charge of the thing. Poor Erin.
Setting up for Shots
You may notice that the last couple of pictures have been all setting-up. For this, I must again express my gratitude at being born male.
Girl's Side, Nearly
Almost there! (Again: Erin, Gen, Mel, Jill, Charlotte, Sarah).
Girl's Side, Ready
They did it! Behold! (And that's a great shot too...)
Mel and Charlotte
The sisters.
Mel and Gen
Gen smiled almost as much as Mel, I must admit.
Mel and Sarah
Just getting ready, though.
Mel and Erin
I like calling the Iron Matron. Though Mel chose the name.
Humble Mel
She was supposed to pose like that. I don't think it's really in her nature, though.
Contemplative Mel
Well, fine, maybe she is contemplative...but I rarely see her looking like that in Real Life.
Mel, Tired Of Pictures
And old a few hundred to come! From me alone! (Wow, I took too many shots...)
Setting up the train
Everything takes longer when your dress is llonger than you are tall.
Wedding Flowers
Mel asked me to get a shot of the flowers. I think it turned out well.
More Setup
At least Gen is looking humble now. Or contemplative. Or whatever.
Posing
Or getting even more instruction, I forget.
Mary and Dan
Man, she looks proud. (It'd be better if she were easily visible.)
Girls and Mary
Alright, we've moved on to family members in the pictures.
Both Moms
The poses are coming fast and furious now...mostly because Mel has stopped moving.
Mary and Mel
That look is still odd, but it may have been legit this time.
Dan, Mary, and Mel
Dan's her step-father, for the record.
Siblings
Charlotte, Mel, and Me. I'm happy these pictures got taken.
Siblings, II
Though I should have gotten more with just Mel.
Siblings, III
At least my smile looks proper here.
The Train
I'm used to people getting mad at me when I take pictures of their butts and post them on the internet. In this case, though, it was appropriate...so I eventually caught on and got the shot.
Flower Contemplation
It was a nice arrangement. I must admit.
Flower Posing
And it even made more sense when they were contemplating!
Flower Posing, II
A nice shot, mostly because they really do look happy...
Flower Posing, III
I've gotta see how the photographer's shots turn out.
Sarah Arrives
Behold! Music!
Mel and Dad
He's proud.
Mel and Dad, II
She's happy.
Mel and Dad, III
What more do you need?
Minister and Charlotte
Them's a shiny tie.
Mel and Parents
If it wasn't for the red-eye, Mel would look very nicely contmplative here. As it stands...oh well.
Mel and Parents, II
There, that's somewhat better. The red-eye goes with the look of maniacal glee.
Core Family
And the last of the pre-wedding shots is of the main family: Mary, Mel, Mike, and Char. And it's a nice shot too. I like that family...
Post-Wedding Bubble Distrubition
It was bubbles instead of rice this time. Let's see... Sarah, Keith, Jacob, Belle, Rachel, Rach&eacte;, DB, Dan, and Andrew are visible.
Awaiting the Couple
Oh, I don't even know where to start listing people...
The Awaiting Continues
Ray's parents just aren't a good substitute for having soap bubbles popped on them.
Still More Awaiting
Mel's folks are coming out too...leaving not too many.
The Couple
The first shot I have of them in married life - and they're biding their time. I'm somehow not shocked.
Early Bubbles
"We want to stop awaiting!"
Preparing to be Bubbled
The soap will never come out!
Bubbling
I shoulda gotten the shot from in front, I guess...but there were already others getting that.
Bubbling, II
I want as many of my friends to come to my wedding some day.
Bubbling, III
It's almost overwhelming...
Stretch VW Limo
A VW Limo?
Stretch VW Limo Departs
I had no idea this was going to be here. It's so cool!
Mingling
Now that the couple's gone...now what? Well, we talk with old friends of course!
Hadas and Tunji
It'd been a while since I'd seen either of them. Yay, old friends!
Smaller Mingling
Which gives me better powers of labelling, incidentally. (Beth, Pat, Sarah Auvenshine, Jesse, Sarah; Jon's in the background, and there's more of course.)
More Friends
Yay! Eva, Belle, Dan, Sean, Rene, Andrew.
"Okay, more pictures everyone!"
The look of shock on Sarah's face is great.
Signing
Okay, I admit that I over-took pictures of the signing. But it was fun!
Ray Signs
After all, if I can't officially witness, I can at least gather the extra incriminating evidence.
Mel Signs
"Ha! You've been Punk'd!"
John Signs
Onto the witnesses...
Erin Signs
The real reason I don't get to sign is because my signature is illegible. FYI.
Sarah and Kevin
It's hard to believe that Kevin moved away without Sarah. So sad.
Final Preparations
I think this is the "fake certificate" bit, so they have something to frame.
Happy Mel
My Gods, that's a heart-breakingly happy smile. Certainly the best I've ever taken...
Happy Couple
It is done. And they are happy. And there are both of them... We have our summary picture.
Tim
Not bad.
Tim, with Red-Eye
I should Photoshop that out. I looked good besides it...
Mel's Hair
Poofy, lots of metal, and flowers...but she liked it.
The New Family
...or what they could track down of it. Dan, Mary, Ray, Mel, Mel's Grandma, Mike, and Charlotte.
New Family, II
A couple of 'em were looking at me, anyway.
New Family, III
I think I like them not looking at me, to be honest. It just works with my style (if I have one) of photography.
New Family, IV
But I still like the interesting Ray looks.
Mel's Side
Ray, Mel, Mel's Grandma, Mike, and Char.
Mel's Other Side
Char, Ray, Mel, Mary, and Dan.
Bridesmaids
I'd like to think I said something funny to get those smiles, but the truth is probably that they were just that happy.
Ray's Side
Well, you can't see everyone...
Ray's Side, II
But you can at least try. (Tony, Ray's Mom, Ray, Ray's...Aunt?, Mel, John)
Ray's Side, III
This time, Ray's eyes were *really* closed! Whoo!
Ray and Mel
My first couple-only picture with red-eye after the wedding! (I feel like a sports broadcaster. "Most foul balls after a ball in the seventh inning during home games where it's raining.")
Ray's Parents, and Mel
Tony, ???, Ray, and Mel.
All the Parents
Still happy.
All the Parents, II
Still still happy.
Wedding Party
So many of us! Ken, Henry, Gen, Char, Mel, Ray, John, Sarah, Me, Jill, Gen; Jacob's probably behind me or something...
Wedding Party, II
That's us.
Wedding Party, III
We all looked good. I need to buy a tux.
Wedding Party, IV
I need to get a source of better lighting. Still, I like how we look.
Couple Pictures Begin
Back outside, to where flashes are unnecessary and pictures are therefore better!
Nature
It gives us flowers and lighting!
Bridesmaids and Ray
I wish I could have gotten up there for a proper shot. Oh well.
"Sit on their knees!"
And thus begun our ill-fated journey.
Sitting commences
You know, if I make any "poor Henry and John" comments, my legs will probably be broken later.
Sitting on the Groomsmen
But at least I got to stand.
Sitting on the Groomesmen, II
And a lot can be forgiven for that smile.
Flower Shots
Loner shots? Really? Odd.
Ray Stands By
Waiting for some more pictures of him, I guess... or perhaps for his bride back.
Mel and John
Starting to wrap up the pictures here, finally.
Core Party
Erin, Ray, Mel, and John.
Core Party, II
The Iron Matron, Groom, Bride, and Best Man.
Further Contemplation The Bouquet
I got a bouquet! Well, just for a few minutes, but it was enough... hehe.
De-Training
It's like de-railing, only more comfortable. Or perhaps it's like forgetting. Either way, I like my new word.
Erin in Mel's pants
She always wanted to be there...
The Dads watch the de-training
They seem too amused for this.
De-Training Complete
And now Mel can walk around without someone constantly on her butt...
Stretch VW Beetle
Such a cool limo!
Stretch VW Beetle, Interior
And it really does have all the standard stuff...
Stretch VW Beetle, Interior, II
Though it is obviously small.
Stretch VW Beetle, Exterior
A cool car. I classy move. I'm impressed.

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